
We all have our fair share of personal crisis. Hence a little bit of kindness shown will not only help someone in need, it also reminds them there is always hope in the midst of a storm. Yet, it can sometimes be tough for some to make the first move to clarify the issue or intervene. “Oh how embarrassing/awkward if I were to help this person….even though I really want to… maybe someone else will step up to help… I will just wait and see…I’d better be minding my own business”. Does this train of thought sound familiar? What would you do if you see this person abusing an animal?
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What would you do if you see this young child alone at the MRT station?

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“Mind your own business” can be a convenient phrase for us to tell ourselves when we witness an issue in public and we don’t feel that it is in our place to step in, in case it causes trouble and inconvenience to ourselves.
However, there are times when interventions are necessary and your actions can make a huge difference to how the situation turns out. I do not mean that you literally step into a fight to stop a violent fight going on. However, you can act wisely by promptly alerting the teacher or police. When we start to internalise the “Mind your own business” phrase, we can become apathetic to the problems of people who truly need help, and become insensitive and cold-hearted. It is important to remember that we don’t have to possess super powers in order to help others. There are times when we have to make split second decisions to assist someone whose life is endangered because you are in that place in that particular time.
We live in a society and we all need to realise that to make society more caring, compassionate and inclusive for everyone, every individual has to make the first move to make a positive difference to the lives of others. Read stories of how strangers show kindness to one another and be inspired to make a difference to the lives of others.
Heartwarming story 1: Just driving through
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When my friend and I were injured in a car accident, a family from out of state stopped to help. Seeing that we were hurt, they drove us to the hospital and stayed there until we were released. They then took us home, got us food, and made sure we were settled in. Amazingly, they interrupted their vacation to help us. —Contributed by Cindy Earls, Ada, Oklahoma
Heartwarming story 2: A family’s food angel

While going through a divorce, my mother fretted over her new worries: no income, the same bills, and no way to afford groceries. It was around this time that she started finding boxes of food outside our door every morning. This went on for months until she was able to land a job. We never did find out who left the groceries, but they truly saved our lives. —Contributed by Jamie Boleyn, Emmett, Idaho
Heartwarming story 3: Lending a helping hand

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I believe that most people who see a person with a physical disability fall into two camps. One, they instinctively come forward to assist; or two, they avoid the issue totally, to the extent of not even making eye contact. Thankfully, during my eight weeks (56 days) of recovery after my knee surgery, most of the people were kind to me. Parents of small children might see me coming in my wheelchair or on crutches and remind their little ones to be mindful of a “handicap” person coming and they would open doors for me at entrances, hold the lift or give me a wide berth so I can pass easily. Due to help from many strangers, I was able to make it to work. — Contributed by Katelin Teo, Singapore
Heartwarming story 4:

Grab driver Mr Bala was given HKD$10 for a trip which costs SGD $8.80. Mr Bala then shared that the passenger had reassured him multiple times that Hong Kong currency was equivalent to SGD and he believed his words. He felt dumbfounded after he found out the truth because HKD $10 is equivalent only to about S$1.78! When Mr Bala’s daughter Sarah posted his story online, many of the users tagged the official Grab TikTok account to ensure that the company was aware of this incident and would reimburse Mr Bala. Some were offering solutions to help him directly.
Soon after the first TikTok video went viral, Sarah posted an update regarding the Grab scam: Grab had contacted them to assist. Mr Bala was overwhelmed with all the support that he received from strangers. Additionally, Sarah said that a family friend even transferred her S$10 for her dad. To top it all off, a representative from Grab contacted the family and credited the full fare into Mr Bala’s Grab wallet. —- Contributed by Sarah, Singapore
Ideas for showing acts of kindness
- Doing house chores
- Help with meal preparations
- Wash the dishes after meals
- Pack your own room by putting dirty items to where they belong, emptying the bins, hang and fold your laundry, and sort out your school notes in files
- Organize the cupboards/storeroom/fridge/bookshelves
- Make your bed and a family member’s bed
- Leave two kind comments on social media
Everyone loves getting happy messages on social media, so this is an easy random act of kindness for kids to try. Older kids with social media accounts can like and leave a positive, supportive comment on a friend or family member’s post. Reach outside of your normal circle (safely) to include others who may be feeling ignored or left out.
3. Help teachers with carrying items or packing the classroom
It does not have to be Teacher’s Day to help your teachers. Students write gratitude notes to the teachers or they can offer to help in small things, like cleaning the whiteboard, packing the classroom storage shelves, carrying heavy items to the staffroom, giving out assignments etc.
- Make a snack basket for delivery people
It is convenient to order food or items. People who work in delivery face different challenges daily, on the road or technical issues, or with difficult customers. You can show your appreciation to delivery staff by packing a small basket of tray that contains some basic items like bottled water or juice, granola bars, or prepackaged goodies. Leave a sign letting delivery drivers know they’re welcome to take a snack for the road.
Everyone can be societal role models who make the first move to help others. One kind and compassionate act from the heart can cause a ripple effect that can make someone else’s day a little bit better.
What small acts of kindness will you do today?
Think: How can I help make the person’s day better?
Sources:
- https://www.rd.com/article/kindness-strangers/
- https://www.rd.com/article/acts-of-kindness-for-kids/
- https://pride.kindness.sg/grab-driver-who-got-scammed-stunned-and-grateful-by-outpouring-of-online-support/
- https://pride.kindness.sg/kindness-is-not-a-crutch-knee-surgery-forced-me-to-depend-on-others-and-i-was-surprised-by-their-compassion/




































